| Wednesday, June 17th, 2009 | | CWK Producer |
“We know that the savings rate in our country is atrocious. As a matter of fact, last year was the first time since the Great Depression that we had a negative savings rate as a country. So as adults that have obviously very little value on savings, we're not passing it on to our kids to put much aside in savings, either.”
– Todd Mark, Spokesperson, Consumer Credit Counseling Service
17-year-old Vanessa Ceci works part time at a tanning salon. She says her paycheck belongs to her, and not her parents.
“They shouldn’t be too involved,” says Vanessa, “because it’s my money that I’m spending. Like, I’m working for it.”
“There are times that she’ll come home with a new purse,” says Vanessa’s mom Dianna, “or some more shoes that she doesn’t need - and we kind of get upset.”
Should parents decide how kids spend their money?
“It’s a good thing for parents to say, ‘you’ve got money coming in - these are the things that I would do if I were in your shoes,’” says Todd Mark with the Consumer Credit Counseling Service. “Not necessarily force them to, but strongly encourage them to.”
And, Mark says, one thing parents should strongly encourage in their children is saving.
“We know that the savings rate in our country is atrocious,” he says. “As a matter of fact, last year was the first time since the Great Depression that we had a negative savings rate as a country. So, as adults that have obviously very little value on savings, we’re not passing it on to our kids - to put much aside in savings - either.”
Vanessa says she now saves most of her paycheck---because that’s what her mom taught her to do.
“I like saving,” she says. “It makes me feel good knowing that I have money in my savings account. When I talk to some people they are, like, ‘oh, I only have, like, 50 dollars!’ I’m like, ‘wow! I have a lot more than that!’ So it just feels good because, like, in the future, I’ll be set up a little better than most people.”
And experts say that if you can afford it, encourage kids to save with a cash reward.
“Many parents really go the extra mile to encourage this by doing just as employers do with a 401(k),” says Mark. “And [they] say, ‘you are going to put 10 percent aside - we’ll match you dollar for dollar.’”
But, he says, for kids to learn the value of money parents should allow them to spend part of their paycheck any way they choose.
“Before, like, when I didn’t have a job,” says Vanessa, “when I wanted something, I was like, ‘oh, okay - swipe the credit card and, like, Mom and Dad will pay for it.’ But once it’s my own money and I’m spending it, I look at a sweater and I’m like, ‘wow, that’s really way too expensive. I have to work like eight hours for this.’”
The American Savings Education Council believes schools are an ‘obvious and natural avenue’ to reach young people with financial information, but the group also says the importance of parents ‘should not be overlooked or underestimated.’
How can parents help their children become ‘financially proficient’? In an address to the Federal Reserve Bank in Dallas, David W. Wilcox, US Treasury Assistant Secretary for Economic Policy, offered his own personal list of concepts parents can teach their children about personal finance:
What else? These suggested financial principles to impress upon children from the Kids’ Money Top Ten List: